One could see good things come out of aid instead of the such negative talk that is often associated with it. Checks and balances would be the only way to make sure that we don't see stuff abused when it comes to aid.Let us get to this and things will be better.
No, humanitarian intervention will always be abused to some extent. Apart from natural disasters, most countries that are very poor have corrupt, inefficient governments. These corrupt official will likely abuse aid that is extended to them. There is no way to ensure that absolutely no abuse happens, because humanitarian aid is offered on a large scale, and there is no way to effectively police the countless local officials involved in administering aid.