But hate-based racism p&*ses me off way more than paternalistic. It was under this that we saw Denmark and Britain's empires, the Ku Klux Klan. A hate-filled bigot who will insult me will give me the desire to punch them right in the face. They are oppressive.
Paternalistic racism is a little bit more tricky to respond to. On one hand they're not rude or hateful, on another hand... Well ehh. But then again has such a thing really existed? Most wars are out of conquest and hatred.
Regardless of the arbitrary and subjective justifications given by a racist, their beliefs are still racist.
It doesn't matter if someone is subtle with their racism, it is still born of an intrinsic sense of innate superiority based upon arbitrary physical judgement.
Most wars are not out of hatred, but out of greed.