"It's having sex with the person you love the most" It's not dangerous in any way, relieves stress and yes, it is natural. Although other natural things are dangerous, masturbation is part of human nature and part of growing up and puberty. So pipe down with your fractionally old religious arguments.
Masturbation in the teen, puberty years, enhances the future when control and pleasure of oneself can be brought forward in love and sexual pleasure with a partner. Whether the masturbation is by a male of female it helps that person to first understand their own body and where pleasure is obtainable and to instruct their partner in later life so that their love can blossom. Experimentation always nearly leads to perfection but what is masturbation other than experimentation before commitment to intercourse.
Masturbation is a thing which is self taught there is no right or wrong way to do it. There is nobody who has not done it or has not enjoyed it. Masturbation is just another basic bodily function which needs to be addressed. It is a safe form of sex and also has good health benefits there is no shame so lay back and enjoy.
Yes, until you start doing it in public. I just don't want to see that. Even fetuses get aroused and self-stimulate. A biologically unhealthy libido is one that will not get an erection during sleep and men typically have wet dreams and/or self-stimulate at night every two to five weeks if they aren't masturbating in the day. The nervous system naturally functions to produce arousing erections which are as uncontrollable as salivation and crapping. Happy wanking!
Animals, men ,and women all partake. If you ask a woman if she masturbates? And she says no. RUN she is lying!!! Anyone who is disgusted by this act is either lying to themselves or in a cult . Wink twice if they are hurting you. I'll contact the authorities and we will start bringing you back to reality.
Masturbation is natural. It helps relieve stress in most people, some even claim it helps them feel better. Masturbation also helps you figure out about your body, feel more comfortable in your own skin, and what turns you on. How do you expect to have sex when you don't even know what makes you feel good?
It feels good & it relieves stress. I feel that masturbation is a wonderful way for us to get it touch with our own feelings. It is a way for us to allow ourselves to enjoy the feelings of climax with complications. I think it is natural & should be considered an acceptable way to live.
If you were born in Islam or Judaism, or even to some extents Christianity, you'd probably learn pretty early on in your holy book that whenever someone is doing something that is enjoyable or pleasurable, the Jewish tribes consider it a "sin". This is probably because they took the idea of personal sacrifice and then put it on steroids and said "Well if personal sacrifice is good for your conscience, then completely abolishing pleasure is even better!"
Imagine a child reading a story of a man releasing his seed for non-procreation purposes in the Bible and then being severely punished. At that young of an age, your mind is easily open to suggestion and its very easy to be indoctrinated into a "culture of guilt".
Even some babies explore their bodies at times. Their parents often discourage them because they're embarrassed, but this also subconsciously "guiltifies" the child's mind in the future.
But let's look at the big picture.
Humans have practiced the pursuit of pleasure since long before religion, or even before organized society to an extent. If it's this ancient, it has to be a natural process our brains cycle into according to nature, and not anywhere near a debatable issue in terms of ethics.
It was even so frowned upon by American Christians in the 19th and 20th century that they "invented" or in other words "popularized" circumcision in an attempt to make masturbation less comfortable for boys and hopefully stop it altogether. It's also been proven to cut off approximately 20000 functional nerve endings, so that young men will never, ever experience what an uncircumcised one will.
It was later proven that it simply wasn't preventing masturbation, but only making it uncomfortable. Not preventing it. So they had to come up with another excuse to keep the profit flowing for the procedure, so they claimed things like "hygiene" to coax people back into the practice. However a foreskin acts exactly like an eyelid to your eye; if the eyelid were cut off when you were a baby, imagine how dry, irritated and numb that eye would be when you're older.
The exact same thing happens to the glans.
It's been around since long before culture or society, and is therefore safe to assume that it's part of nature.
It's just like going to the bathroom, people need relief. Plus, for all the Christians, it's not a sin unless you think lustfully in your mind. If you are merely doing it for a sense of relief, I wouldn't consider it a sin. Also, it's much safer for younger people than having sex.
Sexual intercourse can lead to unwanted pregnancy and fatal STD's masterbation is a healthier and safer alternative.
I believe masturbation is not a natural activity.... I mean we need a partner to satisfy our sextual desires....When you masturbate it shows that you don't have any sextual partner or you are habitual to watch porn (Monkey See Monkey Do....) thats why you do it.....whatever the reasons for that.... I believe that Intercourse is Natural way....so do it in the Natural Way....
Logic is Simple... Try to Analyse it....
Masturbation is nothing more than a way to pleasure yourself. However, it is one of the basest forms of pleasure that exist in life. There are many greater, more valuable and important ways of having pleasure in your life. There are artistic accomplishments and career pursuits. Masturbation is a gateway to wasting your life addicted to sex and its baser pleasures, which should only be appreciated and enjoyed with a spouse.
Whether masturbation is natural or not doesn't really mean anything. Arrogance, greed, corruption, even wars are part of human nature. Does that mean they should all be acceptable behaviors? The question should be is masturbation a good practice? My answer to that is no. Masturbation, when you break it down, is really sex with yourself. Sex feels really good is because it is needed for babies, it is needed for humans to survive as a species. That's why releasing sperm is really enjoyable to men. When you release from masturbation, your brain receives a massive surge of dopamine and the reward circuitry gets messed up, because you feel really good without actually doing something that is good. It turns people more inwards.
I feel that masterbation is a manipulation of the body by humans, not a natural thing. People get nothing from nothing and something from something. Nobody was born with a condom on their penise. Nobody naturally has babies with the opposite sex.
Go ahead scoff and don't listen cause that is just what your going to do. Your going to go with the old "majority vote" that you always do. OR you will commit the eveng greater error via "origin" because you think I'm a blind person. Either way its either true or its either false.
I personally see it as a substitute for shared pleasure that was designed for procreation. Yes, we might not have as much need for multiple descendants as once did, but that shouldn't mean that we should take up self-love before that of others.
I guess you could say I'm selfish when it comes to my partners... I wish to share in their pleasure. Is that such a bad thing? My sexual identity revolves entirely around my partner and therefore I feel that my pleasure should be with/for/because of that person and that person alone.
It's sort of like going from monogamy (bear in mind I don't mean the exact kind that Christianity promotes, just the procreation kind), to sologamy (self love), and finally to polygamy.
While I do agree that polygamy is natural in the bodily/procreation sense, I find the love aspect disquieting... I for one could not find it within myself to devote my time and love to more than one person. It just would be fair.
I guess it depends on your view of what is nature. But I definitely equate masturbation with polygamy however it is not as natural as it does not lend itself to furthering our species.
First lets discuss the word natural. Existing in or caused by nature; not made or caused by humankind. Like a tree growing apples, or a child hitting puberty. A more relevant example would be an orgasm.
Masturbation requires you to use your hands, fingers, everyday objects, or dedicated sex toys.
Sex is good when both participants love each other. Masturbation is different. Masturbation is only a substitution for intimacy and love. It is a smaller version of taking cocaine. It is more insidious because so many find it acceptable. There are too many addicted to masturbation mainly due to the explosion of pornography. It has decreased the quality of life for many, including those in the pornography industry.