Most of the men I've known never really gave a crap about me. I mean, sure they showered me with gifts, attention, 'love' but that was all an attempt to get the same in return. And when they realized they couldn't, they got pretty angry. Doesn't take more than a few weeks for them to meet someone who will reciprocate those feelings and hence, take my place. It took me a couple of years to realize that it wasn't that I was special or anything, they wanted to be loved and they would take it from anyone or anything that gives it to them.