Amazon.com Widgets

Should a couple get married if the girl gets pregnant?

Asked by: ladiesman
  • It's good for the family

    How can a mother raise a kid all by herself, the baby needs a father figure and someone to actually support the mother while she is taking care of the baby and helping it grow, I know how hard being a single parent can be for some people: I also know its hard for kids of a single parent to grow up in a normal environment.

  • Responsiblity of parents

    Here, I'm going to state that somehow a child or children have their rights to live well without bullies, and as a good parents they need to get married because most of the children in countries like the one I'm living at we need a wedding certificate of parents to attend proper school and without marriage of parents the child will be bullied , it doesn't need to be so far ,like marriage, let's just say divorce, even kid with broken parents r bullied then can u think about the kid with single parent ? It's just the same .. Ladies and gentlemen ex yur going to the club making out , getting preg then you don't know the dad well we need abortion and as what u've read from the opp yur saying that the marriage will end with a divorce .. Me myself suggest martied once bcs of preg than leave yur gilfriend out in the street with a baby that's so irresponsible , and you can think , if yur boys , what if you're that child

  • It all depends

    No, it's not for a rush. And you shouldn't just get married you you got the girl pregnant. That may be a commitment that you don't want to quite go into yet, cause you don't know if you want to completely go for marriage with that girl yet. You want to probably have the baby and see if you end up wanting to be in that relationship. If you get married and you have the baby and realize this girl isn't your true love, and you get a divorce, that's just more you have to deal with.

  • It is up to the girl. No pressure

    Don't feel rushed Just because a girl gets pregnant does not mean she has to marry her boyfriend. Due to normative expectations, people feel like they have to be married if they are expecting. You can still be unmarried and raise your kids if you wish. If you are in a relationship and you get pregnant, before rushing into the marriage decision, you should wait to see if the relationship will work out.

  • No they should not:

    "Premarital Pregnancy. Marriages that are the result of pregnancy have a high rate of failure. Fifty percent end within five years."

    http://strongermarriage.Org/htm/married/factors-that-make-a-difference-in-marital-success

    There are many areas that support this claim and while the percentages differ some some degree by +/-6 the result is about the same: Your odds of success drastically drop.

  • Don't feel rushed

    Just because a girl gets pregnant does not mean she has to marry her boyfriend. Due to normative expectations, people feel like they have to be married if they are expecting. You can still be unmarried and raise your kids if you wish. If you are in a relationship and you get pregnant, before rushing into the marriage decision, you should wait to see if the relationship will work out.


Leave a comment...
(Maximum 900 words)
No comments yet.