This has nothing to do with religion. Some morals should be universal. There is absolutely no justification in teaching kids as young as 12 that it's ok to go out and have sex. Any argument to the contrary is wrong. When young kids learn about safe sex but not abstinence, they think that we're giving them permission to do it. Safe sex should be taught, but it should also be made clear to middle school age kids that it is NOT OK for them to engage in sexual activity.
So many girls get pregnant as teens. It is so awful, because many of them having ambitions and dreams. I know many girls that have gotten pregnant at a young age and had to drop out of high school because of it. Getting pregnant takes away the last few years a teen has to be a kid, and not have to worry about responsibilities such as having a child and supporting them. Sex is not a bad thing obviously, but it should only occur after marriage has taken place. I'm fifteen, and I am ALL FOR ABSTINENCE!
Abstinence is one choice that should be taught in schools regarding sex education. Abstinence is the only sure way to prevent teenage pregnancy. Since teenagers probably will have sex, there should be lessons about preventing pregnancy and other ways to be intimate. Abstinence is only one choice regarding the sexual tendencies of teenagers.
I am doing an argumentive essay for AVID class. I believe that abstinacnce should be taught in schools because, it will teach a lesson to the teens before they actually become involved in sexual actiity and make them think twice. It will also prevent STDs and pregnancies. Like someone stated, its going to happen either way it goes, but atleast teens will be alerted what unprotected/ sex before marriage can do to you.
Kids are going to have sex regardless of what sex education they teach! If students are going to have sex they might as well be taught of the different types of contraceptives for both males and females. They should know that there are free condoms at Planned Parenthood. Or maybe schools can provide them after school is over. I am 100% supported of a full and through sex education being taught. There are parents who do not teach talk to their kids about sex which is stupid. That is how your kids were made. It is just sex, it is not that big of a deal.
First of all, abstinence is most effective method for not getting pregnant. Besides, the government save a lot of money in campaigns and methods for birth control, such as condoms, foam, injections, etc. Therefore, we would have limited abortion cases. Moreover, we would avoid sexual diseases. For example, we would not worry anymore about Gonorrhea or Syphilis for our children at erly age.
Not everyone has a good home or can confide in a parent. School is a place of teaching so whats the problem? Abstinence shouldn't be forced at us but taught to us. On top of that safe sex should be taught in combination with abstinence. As a teenager I'm going to have those feelings and especially in this new age where its all over the internet, I need to be aware!
Students do not understand what they are doing, not to mention sex is for marriage only. Pills, condoms, and the like do not work and kids do not use them. Abstinence is the only way to fix the problems we are having in this country. That is what should be taught in the schools!
If a child goes to school, they have heard about sex. Kids talk about it all the time. It is important for kids to know what the real deal is. Otherwise they may get into a situation unprotected and regret it. The old saying is true, it is better to be safe than sorry.
Abstinence should be taught in schools as long as it is incorporated into an entire course on sexual development or sexual health. However, students should not be taught that abstinence is the only form of prevention of sexual disease, and pregnancy. Students should be given choices and they should be taught about all aspects of sexuality.
No, abstinence should not be taught in school. Instead, SAFE SEX should be taught in school. Come on, It's the 21st Century, most kids aren't going to engage in abstinence anymore, It's outdated. Teach safe sex so that students will know the precautions to take when they decide It's time to engage in sexual activity.
1) There is no proof that people would keep their vows.
2) There is still the possibility of rape, molestation or blood contact spreading STD's thus meaning that you can still get STD's even if you are in an abstinence program.
3) Same as above (except blood contact) with pregnancy.
4) What if a person marries but his/her partner has a STD, because most abstinence only programs indoctrinate students to fear preventative measures instead of how to use them.
I feel that abstinence should not be taught at school. It should be taught at home. School should enrich the values that are gained from home not instill them. At school students learn how do to do math, read and write. Students also learn how to be social as a bi-product of being around peers. Surely mishaps like teen pregnancy are bound to happen, but it is up to parents and not teachers to police the matter. Religion is taught in church and moral values are taught at home.
I expect the public school system to teach my children facts. I expect my daughters to learn how their bodies work and the biological details of sex; this is the purpose of a biology/health class. Included in this discussion should be information about contraception.
I will have a big problem if the school system decides it is their place to tell my girls when and where they are able to do what with their bodies. It is my place to instill them with values so that they can make their own decisions, it is not the place of the school system.
Although many people with religious backgrounds try to remain abstinent, only a small number of children actually save for marriage, and by save, I mean oral, vaginal, and anal. Obviously Abstinence should be talked about, but it shouldn't be the true basis of sex education. They shouldn't be using a scare tactic to keep kids from having sex, they should inform them about the dangers of STI's and STD's and how to prevent them (surprise! There's more than one way to protect against STI's besides abstinence!) Whether it be through abstinence or safe sex
Kids are having sex at the age of 12 nowadays. There is nothing we can do to stop it so teaching students about how to protect themselves and to be smart about it can actually help them. Instead of just telling students not to have sex, we need to tell them what can happen to them and the effects of it, whether its good or bad
Sex is a part of life, it should not be viewed as a bad thing, everyone does it, and if they are not it will eventually happen. Giving kids proper sex education lets them know the risks of having sex and makes them more aware! Kids need to be able to tell between fact and myth. Comprehensive sex education is more then just sexual intercourse, its abut prevention, body image ,contraception, gender identity, human growth, anatomy, and development, dabbles on the topics if pregnancy, relationships, safer sex, sexual attitudes and values. Its grounded in evidence and science. Abstinence only programs often give out horribly wrong information and a lot of myths. With out proper education teen pregnancy will continue on, and when it comes to sex nothing is stopping kids from doing it, it makes more sense to give them facts instead of them listening to their friends. Often times kids will try to turn to porn to "learn" things, porn gives a huge misinterpretation about what sex is and they rarely use protection in those sorts of things. These kids need facts and no more myths, it will offend people just like anything else but its what will keep them safe!
Since the beginning of time, before the concept of marriage was even created, teens have been having sex. Therefore, even if you encourage teens not too, they will continue to have sex. Our teens should be taught both the dangers of having sex, and the good feelings sex can bring us. They should be taught the meaning of consent and how to protect themselves against STDs and unwanted pregnancies, not how to deny themselves of their basic human urges. How can they avoid their sexual urges when we brainwash them constantly with the over sexualisation of the media and the easy access to pornographic images we provide them with?
No matter how hard you try to influence teenagers today they will most likely do with what the rest of their friends are doing. So instead of trying to force abstinence on them, prepare them with safe sex if they decide make the decision to have sex. The more you try to stop them, the more they will want to do it.
Nothing wrong with abstinence however, when the teen in in the heat of the moment and they surcome to the feelings they are having you want them to know what to do. You teach them fire escape plans just in case the house catches on fire right? You do this just in case it happens not because you want them to be in an actual house fire. Im 35 and my first time whas when I was 19. Thankfully it had been drilled in me to use condoms or I could have gotten pregnant at a young age. When you teach abstinence you make it seem as if the teen is going to be looked at in a negative manner and they will not seek advise when they want to have sex. They will use what little they know and possibly make poor choices.
They need to know how to properly put on a condom and where to get them for free if they need them. Stop this nonsence of not educating these kids.