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  • It's to have fun

    There's nothing wrong with it. You don't have to grind, but it's so much fun unless you're one of those poor souls with stiff hips and don't know how to dance. People who complain need to chill out. I grind, and roll my body in various forms to keep my partner guessing. I can see how it's inappropriate, but I'm not buying it. The world has always been sexually charged. Just because it's more out in the open doesn't mean we're worse than previous generations.

  • It's only a dance

    I've been to mostly all of my highschool dances and I'm a junior this year. Nothing is wrong with grinding, it's just 2 people dancing. Many duo dances have sexual moves, and grinding is just another one of them. If both members are enjoying it and not saying anything then there shouldn't really be a problem. It helps create a bond with the person. Grinding is just another form of dancing people.

  • Its only dancing

    There is nothing wrong with grinding I think. It is only a dance a I will tell you that I have gotten a lot more intimate while slow dancing. I am a junior in high school and i know lots of girls that like to do it to. If you don't like it then don't attend. Its your problem not ours

  • It's not a problem unless you make it one.

    I really don't think grinding is bad, I am a freshman girl in high school, and personally I just think of it as a dance. It is fun, and the teachers are okay with it too. It's not harassment at all, and if you don't want to grind, or see it, then don't go to the dance. You are only blaming yourself.

  • Yes it should be

    Grinding is so much fun. It makes dancin less awkward because you don't have to worry about being a bad dancer. Everyone can do it all you need is a date. I am a junior in highschool and I did it the first time this year and it was the best dance ever!

  • Yes it should be

    Grinding is so much fun. It makes dancin less awkward because you don't have to worry about being a bad dancer. Everyone can do it all you need is a date. I am a junior in highschool and I did it the first time this year and it was the best dance ever!

  • Of Course It should be

    If you have a problem with grinding, it's your own problem so please do not try to make your problems our problems. Its just a dance. Nothing life changing here. Don't like it? Don't participtate. But whatever you do don't try to force your ideals on everyone else. Most people who attend enjoy it but the minority who disapprove shouldn't try ruining it for the rest of us. Grinding is a harmless dance that isn't going anywhere and we would appreciate if you would live and let live. That is all

  • Don't make your problems our problems

    Only idealistic jack butts would much such a big deal over something so harmless. There's really no need for your overly dramatic objections to it. It's nothing life changing. It's a dance. It exists and it's not going away any time soon. If you don't like it then you are the one with the problem and should get over yourself.

  • Don't make your problems our problems

    Only idealistic jack butts would much such a big deal over something so harmless. There's really no need for your overly dramatic objections to it. It's nothing life changing. It's a dance. It exists and it's not going away any time soon. If you don't like it then you are the one with the problem and should get over yourself.

  • Grinding is just like a dance move.

    I went to my first ever highschool dance this year and found a boy who said he wanted to dance. We started dancing then turned into grinding. We had a good time. If the boy is ok with it and the girl is too then it shouldn't be a problem. Grinding is just a dance move except you are moving your hips on the boys crotch. It is kinda like having sex but nobody can get pregnant from it. It is not a dangerous act unless the girl or boy feels violated which is then when they say no I would not like to grind. Otherwise, it should be allowed at school dances.

  • Not at all!

    Grinding is a very animalistic act, reducing everyone to openly displaying their desire for physical gratification instead of respect for one another!!! Missing getting to know one another!! :( Not to mention other factors such as no one being married to their dance partner, age, in public, awkward for all, etc.!

  • It ruins the dance for everyone else.

    My senior prom was perfection... Until it turned into an orgy. There were people who deserved to have as much fun as those people dry humping on the dance floor. Not only does it objectify EVERYONE, but it also makes those who don't participate uncomfortable as heck. Lastly, how are we supposed to have fun when the entire dance floor is being taken over by those who think it's fun to grind up against each other. It's disgusting and looks stupid, not cool.

  • Disrespectful to girls!! And guys too

    Many kids don't want to go to the dances because they feel that they have to grind BUT some want to go so that they can dance and hang out. Grinding seems to be for those who want something or guys to talk about a girl in a negative way. Not all are comfortable but administration at the dances just goes along with it!

  • Never. Not now, not ever.

    It isn't dancing, it is deliberate sexual stimulation. In public. Around all your peers and some teachers. First, I dont need to see that. Second, it will lead to all kinds of trouble, emotional and physical at that age of maturity. It is a very, very slippery slope. I could elaborate a both these points. But I'm 28, very much done with school dances. So I'm going to sleep now.

  • Would it be ok during school hours?

    1) If grinding violates the student code of conduct (which it does at most, if not all, public high schools) then it is illogical for it to be sanctioned at a dance on campus. Nightclubs, sure. High school gyms where 18 year olds mingle with 14 year olds, no.

    2) As a woman, I do not want to be asked to dance, then be expected to turn around and bend over. Wha?? How someone would want that for their 14 year old daughter is beyond me. It's fundamentally disrespectful to each other and those around you. Simulated sex (the very definition of grinding ) is fine...Behind closed doors and with consenting adults.

  • Grinding is not a dance and can ruin everything

    It's really sad how people are considering grinding a dance move because that is not what it is. It's actually just a bunch of immoral low standard hoes and fuckboys pretty much dry humping to songs that drop every cuss word in the book about 50 times a second. Not only is it disgusting and inappropriate but it can also ruin couples and relationships. I recently went to a what was suppose to be a winter FORMAL and that is exactly what it wasn't. I think there was a group including me of like 7 that were just standing around talking and our obnoxious classmates surrounding us grinding. It hurts my heart how much our society has gotten out of hand and how disgusting our generation has become. Is there even such thing as a formal dance? Or is that of something in the past. Does anyone know what a gentlemen and being lady like is? Probably not and this is why i don't belong in this sickening generation.

  • Grinding is not a dance

    It's really sad how people are considering grinding a dance move because that is not what it is. It's actually just a bunch of immoral low standard hoes and fuckboys pretty much dry humping to songs that drop every cuss word in the book about 50 times a second. Not only is it disgusting and inappropriate but it can also ruin couples and relationships. I recently went to a what was suppose to be a winter FORMAL and that is exactly what it wasn't. I think there was a group including me of like 7 that were just standing around talking and our obnoxious classmates surrounding us grinding. It hurts my heart how much our society has gotten out of hand and how disgusting our generation has become. Is there even such thing as a formal dance? Or is that of something in the past. Does anyone know what a gentlemen and being lady like is? Probably not and this is why i don't belong in this sickening generation.

  • It's pretty stupid

    I previously went to a high school dance with my date expecting it to be fun. Neither my date or I have been to one before so we didn't know what to expect. All that happened at the dance was girls grinding on guys, and my date and I felt a little awkward. Dances should be for actual dancing and what makes them fun is that even if you can't dance you still try and have fun with your friends.

  • High School Fairy-tale Gone Wrong

    I was homeschooled for about 2 years, so I wasn't that out of the loop on high school nor am I a super crazy sheltered kid. So, I went to homecoming expecting slow dances, that guy who is too shy to ask a girl to dance, and basically every high school dance movie out there. I went in completely nieve. It was just a lot of dry humping, sex-drived hyenas. To say the least, I'm never going to a school dance or a dance, in general, again.

  • It's quite simple:

    Would a kid get in trouble in school if they were caught engaging in manual sex with clothes on? I mean imagine in the halls if two people are grinding like crazy and all of a sudden a teacher sees them dry humping. I really doubt It would go over well. On that note, I am about to turn 26. I am a straight guy and DID NOT grind in high school or college. I wanted to; but, my conscience won out. If at least one person's genitals are being stimulated, it IS a sexual act. In most places the age of consent is 16. So if you are under 16, you should not be able to grind from that perspective. And FINALLY, it ruins the actual high school experience. You are still young and learning about sexuality and dating. It is NOT age appropriate. To be honest, I'm not sure if you can really say that public sex is even appropriate as an adult.


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