Many people don't know how to parent when they become one. Many are not a good example to their kids and later get mad at their kids for having done something inappropriate. Kids are not properties. Assumption is dangerous and can lead to fatal consequences. Assuming that we are raising our kids right can actually have very bad results when they are grown. They are not properties to which we can treat them how we want. In order to have kids, we must be ready AND prepared. Raising kids is a huge responsibility and it demands lots of attention in order to have them ready to serve the world when they are grown the right way.