Why does everyone think it's okay to live with your parents until your ready to move out? When I was 16 I bought a car with my own money, got a job to support that car, and paid it off within a year. My parents and I weren't close, in fact we were always at each other's throats over everything. I went through college, majored in political science, became a paralegal towards the end of my second degree, and now I'm a successful political scientist who makes 300 grand a year and i just turned 30. My sitter are like the people on the other half of this argument. She is still living with our parents , has no job, didn't go to college, and she will live there for the rest of her life. Why? Because of my tense relationship with my parents I got out of that house the day I turned 18 becuase I didn't want to end up like my parents or my sister. If what my sister is doing wasn't so socially acceptable then she might actually have a life rather than being the child she still is.
When kids turn 16 years old, they can drive, which is making them more independent and they don't rely on their parents so much. But when a child turns 18, he or she can not only drive but these "adults" can now make their own decisions. They can vote and choose who they want to be represented by, they can buy their own propety etc. etc. OK, some are not the brightest and some might still need some help with maturing into an adult. Everyone takes their own time, but the average of US citizens become adults when they turn 18.
Because we deserve any right as any boy seems in this world. God gave us what we needed and deserve when we came to this world. And, we 18 years old have the right to do any thing we want. When you turn 18 you have the right to do anything you want.
Yes..Even the constitution says that people over the age of 18 are adults.But some do not use the power they have within themselves.18 years is an age that we have to be and learn to indipended,because most of our legal supports such as grants are cancelled.It shows to me that you are an adult...
I agree that there are many 18 year olds who are not adult worthy. But you also there are people 21+ that are also not mature either. You have to consider 18 year olds who are own their own. I moved out my moms house when I was in 8th grade. I have made my own decisions for a while now. Im doing just fine. I consider myself very mature. Nobody pushed me or made me decisions yet I am doing fine. I am currently attending high school, I am about to go to college for Criminal Justice science. I will agree that there are many people who could not hold this responsibility but I am sure I am not the only successful mature 18 year old in the world. Many of my friends are 19-22 and I am the mature one of the group. So I would say yes, 18 year olds are adults. Not all of us are immature , party crazed kids.
People should be given most legal rights at 18, such as the right to vote (which should be lowered to 16), own a firearm, join the military, etc, but not all responsibilities because 18 year olds are simply put not mature adults. Even 21 year olds are not. Let's face this reality.
This is the age when many begin to take care of themselves.This is the age where teens become responsible for themselves in many ways. This can include financial responsibility, finding their own place, and paying their own insurance. The only thing they are missing out on at this age is drinking. This is the age in which people generally leave the comfort and safety of their parents and go out into the world to fend for themselves.
This is the age where teens become responsible for themselves in many ways. This can include financial responsibility, finding their own place, and paying their own insurance. The only thing they are missing out on at this age is drinking. This is the age in which people generally leave the comfort and safety of their parents and go out into the world to fend for themselves.
Some 18 year olds are as brainless as a cucumber, I wouldn't call them adults.
Under the law they may be considered an adult, but IMO it take a heck of a lot more than a number.
I consider them an adult, when they can be self sufficient, respectful, able to communicate well, know how to interact with people from all walks of life., and obey the laws of their country.
I certainly do not feel this is the age everyone becomes an adult maturity-wise, but at some point in time an individual must be equipped with all of the rights to care for themselves. Many people don't leave home at this age, and some still haven't even had their first jobs, but at some point in time someone must make the passage, why not 18? At this age, many people are taking very good care of their matters and are very responsible. Some folks will ruin it for others.
I never thought 18 should be the legal age. An 18 year olds mind set is not done maturing, you don't fully stop until you're "21" which should actually be the legal age. That's why so many old men go after young teen's and it's up to the parent who barely has the rite of being a parent any more to try and save there children from corruption. My sister started dating a 24+ year old guy around the time she was 16 which later was found out he is a level3 sex offender, which now she's just completely out wild and out of control at only 18. They we're just children not even that long ago! Our legal system is set to destroy our youth and it's sick. It's already being proven, media targets and sexualises under age teens, make's being a virgin uncool so our teen's are out of control which targets our children as well, because now kids are even having sex, all this when there going through puberty and need there parent's guidance the most. Setting the age limit at 18 destroys the mind sets of young teens and makes them want to grow up too fast, which also destroys family relationships, look at what the media doe's, giving 16 year old girl's with baby's money and fame, which lead to girl's purposely getting pregnant just to be on TV. Young teen's dressing entirely way too grown for there age's and trying to act like woman when there not even finished growing. 18 year old boy's trying to be men when they don't even know the first thing about being a man or want to handle responsibilities as an adult, having sex and not knowing how or even want to take care of a child. There not even future, an you wonder why all these young mothers are raising babies on there own. You have old men staring at 16 year old girl's an younger not even caring of the age any more because there more easy to manipulate at 18, how can you be an adult when your still maturing and you're not even done growing, or can drink until your 21! Be serious people the proof is in the pudding "tale a look at how bad and wildly out of control our teen's an children are today" And you really believe they should be considered adult's? SMFH!..
A lot of 18-year-olds are still in high school and don't have jobs yet. Also, a lot of 18-year-olds still aren't mature enough yet to become adults. By the time most people are 21 though, they have jobs, graduated high school, and are driving already, even though you can start to drive at 15 or 16.
In my experience, most 18 year Olds are not quite responsible enough to be considered adults, for example, most 18 year olds I know live with there parents and still go to high school. However, there are those 18 year olds who have jobs, and are going to college, these I would consider an adult. In reality though, there are people older than 18 that still live with there parents, and don't have jobs, so really, if you are going to use that argument, you have to consider those older like that, not adults as well. So in my opinion, you can not put an age on when someone is an adult, instead we should set the bar of how responsible and muture you have to be to be considered one. That is why we have conflicts of law and why they set the age of adulthood at 18, because how could they possibly measure when you become responsible enough.
At the age of 18 you have not experienced enough in the world to be considered an adult. I'm eighteen and I don't know how to get my own of anything really. My parents have always done all that for me. At this age we should be learning how to become an adult not trying to be one. Eventually we'll crash and burn without the right guidance. The proper age should be 21. By then you should have a real understanding of what an adult is.
At the age of eighteen you have no real world experience. You have depended upon your parents for everything. Although eighteen is the age where most are thrown into the world & forced to be an adult, you have no idea what all that entails until at least age twenty.
Like, why the heck is 18 considered an adult when it has the word TEEN in it. 18 and 19 are still teenagers. There are even 18 year olds in high school. I would consider 20 to be an adult. This is my opinion about 18 being considered an adult.
I think that you are a child until at least age 20, if not 21. I'm 16, and i don't know if I will feel like an adult in two years but probably not. Plus eightTEEN and nineTEEN are still teens. And teens aren't really adults, in my opinion. So I think at least 20, and probably 21. Because by then, you will probably be thinking for yourself more, and you can make more adult decisions. Also, I mean 18 is just out of high school. By 21 you will have some more experience in the world. Again, just my opinion.
I don't think these kids are growing up fast enough to know what an adult is or means. They just do really stupid things like making noises and pointing fingers, rumors, harassing others and etc. I do see that at some point these kids have to be let out of the box. I just don't see them at the age of 21 being responsible enough.
You do not know what an 18 year old is really like till you live with them. Some of them. So far I have been assaulted, Harassed, sexually harassed, and etc. there has also been over about $1,000 in damages from PC/laptops to just about anything they wanted to break of mine or steal.
Yes there are some 18 year olds who have grown up. But I have seen the other side of their age. It is an insult to the real students and adults.
I'm 18 and I graduated high school earlier this summer. I'm facing college and the real world at this point. Mentally, I definitely do not feel like an adult. Granted, I am facing some really difficult mental problems right now, but an 18 year old is still not mature enough to be considered an adult. I believe 21 is a bit more realistic. I don't believe people my age should be labeled as "adults" just because they reached a certain point in their lives. This is a huge turning point in the life of a kid. No longer a kid, finally an adult, but really you're not. You're supposed to have these "adult" responsibilities, but in reality you're probably still living in your parents house and are supported by your parents. Some 18 year olds I know still don't have a job, a car, or a license. I personally don't have my license yet, as driving scares me. I really don't think we should say "A person is legally an adult at this age." It just doesn't work. It scares a lot of teenagers. We are still growing and learning about the world and how it works. We've just gotten out of high school and are trying to grow up without the aid of our parents, but it's hard. It's a really hard point in life. I've said enough. I firmly believe an 18 year old shouldn't be labeled.