Should teens be allowed to obtain birth control without parental consent?
From a teen.
Teen girls don't want to talk to their parents about sex or the idea of birth control because they will think that the parents suspect they're having sex. For me personally, I wouldn't want my mom to know I was having sex at the young age of 16. But nonetheless they need protection so they should be able to obtain birth control without parental consent.
Posted by: AnonymousThey'll do it anyway
If parents don't agree with birth control because they think all teens will do is run off and go have sex, odds are that they will have sex anyway at some point in their teenage years. Plus birth control isn't just to protect teens from getting pregnant it help regulate their period. If they chose to have sex then that's really their choice. Wouldn't you want your child to be more protected than just using a condom?
Posted by: AnonymousAt least they're taking precautions.
Parents overreact! At least the teen is staying safe and don't go and get pregnant. Whether they tell their parents or not, it does not matter. Our parents don't tell us every time they want to have sex, so why should we tell them? Exactly, it's none of their concern.
Posted by: AnonymousLet's be realistic. They'll just go without.
If teens are required to have parental consent to obtain birth control, all that will happen is that they'll go without. Or, maybe they'll steal it, or some other undesirable outcome. The point is, they'll try to get it by some other means. It would be nice if parents were involved in the matter, but the world doesn't actually work that way; there's no point in pretending that it does.
Posted by: AnonymousWaiting until marriage is not perfect for everyone.
I believe that teens should have access to birth control and condoms. If a teen wants to have sex they should be able to have access to the proper protection without having to tell their parents. Sex is a touchy subject and can be and is extremely awkward. We as parents need to educate our children that they have options and give them the means to use them. When the choice has been made wouldn't you rather your teen be on birth control and using condoms rather than risking it and getting pregnant or obtaining an STD?
Posted by: AnonymousFrom personal experience, I say YES!
I feel that when a young lady requests birth control she is being responsible. She understands that it is likely that she may become pregnant and wants to protect herself from that. A child choosing to have sex does not mean they see themselves as an adult. They are simply exploring the physical and emotional changes they are experiencing. My mom freaked out when she though I was having sex in middle school, but I was a virgin until my second year in high school. My baby sister only in the 7th grade when she started. She was pregnant before she graduated high school. I believe that if my mom was more open with discussing sex and possible complications this could have been avoided. Times are different now and talks of sex are occurring in younger children everyday. Parents need to stop forbidding the act and discussion of sex and start educating their children. After all, the more parents protest it, the more children want to do it.
Posted by: AnonymousThey'll do it anyway
If parents don't agree with birth control because they think all teens will do is run off and go have sex, odds are that they will have sex anyway at some point in their teenage years. Plus birth control isn't just to protect teens from getting pregnant it help regulate their period. If they chose to have sex then that's really their choice. Wouldn't you want your child to be more protected than just using a condom?
Posted by: AnonymousYes, from a teen mom.
Had I been able to obtain birth control without my mom, or God forbid, my dad, I may not be in this situation. GET OVER IT, teens have sex. Waiting till marriage isn't a popular concept anymore. Some do, most don't. They have the YOLO mentality and do stupid things. At least make sure they're safe and protected when doing it. It's going to happen, you can't stop it. At least make sure they are prepared.
Posted by: AnonymousYes they should; it is the student's body.
Parents are against birth control. They say, "They should wait till' marriage", but in reality, no one does that anymore. Teens are going to have sex regardless of your warnings. I was scared to talk to my mom about birth control because I didn't want her to know I was having sex. Most teens won't talk to their parents. It is best for teen age girls to get on birth control, which shows they don't want to get pregnant but do want to get their education.
Posted by: AnonymousYes, parents jump to conclusions...
Parents often times jump to conclusions; and so the teen would go without even if they needed birth control for health issues such as overly long or heavy periods. Some use it for acne. (It could also be useful if the teen got raped; less chance of a baby.)
But even if the teen wants it because they are having sex; it's birth control or a baby. Not everyone wants to share their sex life with their parents.Posted by: AnonymousYes
If young girls are mature enough to make the decision to have sex then they should be mature enough to make the decision to be safe about it.
Teenage pregnancy is more and more common in the United States. High schools in major metropolises areas are now offering day care programs so that young mothers can receive an education. Television programs like “Teen Mom” and films like “Juno” are telling stories of young girls who get pregnant in high school and some cases junior high. The problem with these shows is that they only tell half the story and are making teen pregnancy a glorified topic.
The key thing that parents need to keep in mind is to talk to your kids about sex in the first place and make the decision of birth control together. But if your child is not comfortable with taliking about their sex life their parents should be happy that they are at least using protection.Posted by: AnonymousNot all teens can speak to parents
I believe that teens should be allowed to obtain birth control without parental consent because there are situations where a teen could be at risk of being abused by a parent if they find out the teen is sexual active. Also, if parental consent is needed the likelihood of the teen asking a parent is very low and they may resort to having unprotected sex.
Posted by: AnonymousParents have no say in a teens sex life
I know my parents have no say in my sexual endeavors and it should be that way for anyone else with a healthy sexual attitude. Teens' parents don't have to know what's going in their teens sexual life and they should be happy if they know that their child is sexually active that the child is trying to be safe
Posted by: AnonymousYes, I think they should be able to because it is their body.
The problem with these shows is that they only tell half the story and are making teen pregnancy a glorified topic. The key thing that parents need to keep in mind is to talk to your kids about sex in the first place and make the decision about birth control together. However, if your child is not comfortable with talking about their sex life, their parents should be happy that they are at least using protection.
Posted by: AnonymousIt's their BODY
If the teen girls have sex before she is married and if they get prego by mistake, they should be able to decide to have birth control to prevent the situation from happening again. It's the girl's body to look after themselves. Their parents may not agree with them but it's the girl that wants to help her self out in the end.
Posted by: AnonymousAbsolutely
Yes, teens should be allowed to obtain birth control without parental consent. It is a fact of life that most teenagers are going to experiment with sex. Parents are usually the last people that teenagers confide in, regardless of their relationship. Kids are not going to tell their parents they’re sleeping with their boyfriends. Everyone will know about it before the parents do. For that reason, teens need to be able to obtain birth control without their parents’ consent. The alternative is a teenage pregnancy. As a parent myself, I would prefer to find out my Daughter was on the pill as opposed to finding out she was sixteen and pregnant.
Posted by: AnonymousYES, they should be allowed
Teenage girls are talking more and more about sexual activity with their friends, close family or other people they talk to. Its making them want to more and more. If they want to do it then they are going to. Its best to have protection and condoms sometimes dont protect from everything. Birth control can help more protection for the teens. There are other reasons for taking birth control its not just for sexual reasons. It can be to clear acne, sooth the pain of cramps, and birth control can help regulate your period, all while protecting you from getting pregnant.
Posted by: AnonymousYes! Teens should have birth control.
Yes! Teenagers should have birth control. Teenagers should decide if they have sex or not! Its their life their choice! Why can't we have birth control? Oh ... That's right we are too young and too irresponsible! But our parents can't always make our choices for us! That's just not fair. That why we HAVE condoms!
Posted by: AnonymousYES I AGREE
The more we refuse to let them do what they are going to already do behind parents backs then the more issues we will have with birthrate again with teenagers. I am completely for letting teenagers receive birth control without parental consent at least we should be thankful enough that they are acknowledging the fact that they can and will get pregnant if they are not using protection.
Posted by: AnonymousTeens allowed birth control.
Teen should be allowed to have birth control without parent consent because then they are at least being safe and not having unprotected sex. Plus kids are going to want to experiment but they don't want to get pregnant. If they can't talk to their parents about it then what are they going to do just have unprotected sex?
Posted by: AnonymousYes, from a teen.
Teen girls don't want to talk to their parents about sex or the idea of birth control because they will think that the parents suspect they are having sex. For me personally, I wouldn't want my mom to know I was having sex at the young age of 16. But none the less, they need protection so they should be able to obtain birth control without parental consent.
Posted by: AnonymousFROM A DEBATER
Teens should be allowed to get birth control without parental consent. Teens don't like talking to their parents about their sex life, if they have one. It costs the U.S. 7 billion dollars a year for teen pregnancies so why not? 2% of teen moms dont get a college degree before the age of 30.
Posted by: AnonymousOf course I agree.
Teen girls are more "loose" these past few years. They have sex without protection so we should give it to them just to be safe. The media is not helping at all. With shows on the air these days such as "Teen Mom" and "Sixteen and Pregnant" they are fueling girls to become pregnant at a young age. Girls don't want their parents knowing about what they're doing with other boys.
Posted by: AnonymousIt's gonna happen...
If someone is absolutely set on having sex, nothing is going to change that. They're going to do it no matter what. The problem with needing parental consent is that this is a very awkward and scary topic for young people to talk to their parents about. They would probably rather have sex without birth control than have to talk to their parents about it. By allowing teens to obtain birth control without parental consent, it allows for a greater chance of kids actually using it since they won't have to face and talk to their parents about it. And what if their parents say no? It's not going to stop them from having sex but they will not be as safe as they can.
Posted by: BottleCappsThey deserve repsect and to learn to protect themselves the best way so birth control is the best way
Teens sometimes dont have the best relationship with their parents so it would be hard to obtain birth control. Not all the time they choose to use condoms and thats not good but they have to learn just like their mother did its a part of life birth control can not be harmful if u use it properly i am doing a study on birth control and teens are increasing the rate each and everyday by getting pregnant because they are not using contraception its crazy . Parents should be understanable before its too late and thier child doesnt trust them.
Posted by: Tiaraluckettyesss! right now
Right now the u.S has the highest pregnancy rates (41.9%). Most teens are embarrassed to even ask there parents for the sex talk or even mention the topic. This will lower the chance of teen pregnancy. I'm sure a parent does not want their teenager to have a baby and ruin there life. So with that said birth control all the way!
Posted by: AnonymousTaking action for their own actions
The girls are taking actions for themselves and wanting to handle this alone. Some do talk to their parents but others don't want them to know. Better them do it themselves without wanting them to know other than not being able to purchase it and going and getting pregnant. Better to be safe than sorry.
Posted by: AnonymousIt's their life.
They are going to have sex if they want to and if there parents say they can't use birth control it will just make them more likely to get pregnant. Wouldn't you rather have them choose because it is their body and if they want to make sure they do not get pregnant that is their choice, not their parents'.
Posted by: AnonymousTeenagers are not going to stop...
If they want to have sex, they're going to have it. Obviously parents are not going to stop them from doing so. So why not have them receive birth control or any other type of protection without their parents' consent? At least they're having protected sex and can prevent them from getting pregnant in a early age. Which means they can actually finish their education without having to take care of a child.
Posted by: capamerica12I believe it should be allowed.
I know it seems preposterous to allow teenagers as young as 13 to obtain birth control without parental consent, but certain factors about this are overlooked. In the previous articles, it states we use birth control for multiple other reasons, besides just sexual intercourse. As for me, I use birth control to suppress a heavy flow during my menstrual cycle. I also use it for my unbearable cramps. My acne even cleared up. When I discontinued my use of birth control back 2012, I noticed an increase in my flow and pain during my period. My parents didn't know I was getting birth control for a year, but my older sister did. I was able to feel comfortable around her but not my father or stepmother. Certain reasons for taking birth control are reasonable. Other teens may be on it just to have sex, but would you as parents rather them get pregnant? Think deeper.
Posted by: CheyLynn97I am 16, and I have been on birth control for almost a year now and it has saved me from many dangerous situations.
Girls who cant get birth control because they are too young just decided to not use it and in the end they have unprotected sex at can end in an unplanned pregnancy at a very young because they were not able to get birth control due to laws that certain states have now a days. Girls starting at the age of 14 are not ready to have children, they are still children themselves, how do people expect them to be able to raise another life if they can barley take care of themselves. I feel like this is the reason why there are so many kids in foster homes because of a mistake that two young teenagers made in the heat of passion. I myself had a miscarriage last year at the age of 15 and let me tell you it was not a fun experience, I was scared to death about how I was going to raise a child, especially since the guy I was with left me before I had the chance to tell him I was pregnant with his child.
Posted by: AnonymousYes.
They are going to have sex regardless. Better to be safe than sorry ,& so many things can go wrong with a condom. Sex is natural. It just comes to people. So keeping minors off birth control doesnt make much sense, especially in minors because their hormones are going crazy. It helps them practice safe sex as well.
Posted by: AnonymousWe don't need to over populate for economic reasons
We all know our economy isn't doing so well, people can hardly hold down one job, let alone school, and/or watching a kid(s), along with other responsibilities. Teenagers are hardly ever responsible, but the one's who are are wearing condoms or focusing their energy in their books and not a relationship. Relationships are inevitable, but there's a time and responsibilities to keep up with through communication and further planning, rather than impulsively doing. Teenagers are known to have raging hormones, but they should be warned of the consequences and guilt that follows raising a child without anything to offer them. Always try to be the best parent and example for your kids, so they can pass it on by the knowledge and experience they attain in their adolescent years.
Posted by: Razi87Yes, From a Teen.
Some teen girls don't feel comfortable talking to their parents about sex because parents jump to the conclusion that the child is having sex. Girls should be able to have sex safely. Therefore, they should be allowed to obtain birth control without parental consent. If I wanted to do it in high school, I would never talk to my parents about it because having sex is a decision between the 2 people having it.
Posted by: mdancI say why not?
Most parents aren't even taking the time to invest in their child's life, and most of them come from a broken home. So I honestly think that no matter what situation it is, teens should be able to make their own decisions. I mean if you want to be protected why not save yourself from the embarrassing "safe sex" talks you're dreading to have with your family.
Posted by: AnonymousStop being naiive
People have sex. It is a part of life, and in this day and age, isnt seen as a big to deal to most teenagers. Parents need to stop being naiive and think that if they tell their kids not to have sex that they will listen. THEY WILL NOT. It is better you educate your child and let them make the right decisions based on the knowledge you have given them. If you raised your child correctly, they will do the responsible thing and take the necessary precautions before having sex. The more you tell your child NOT to do something, they will do it more, trust me. So stop trying to have all the control and work WITH your son or daughter.
Posted by: AnonymousTeens should be allowed to obtain birth control without parental consent
I strongly believe this should be allowed. Birth control allows teenagers to practice safe sex. Think of how many unwanted pregnancies would be avoided if teenagers were able to get birth control without their parents permission. Sadly, not every teenager is close to his/her parent, and they will not go to them to ask.
Posted by: AnonymousThey ARE having sex
If kids are afraid to ask their parents for contraceptives this is a good alternative.
If the kids are just afraid to go buy contraceptives for fear of someone seeing them this is good alternative.
It can cut down on the teen pregnancy rate as well as prevent STD’s from spreading through schools.
It will be available to kids who need it or want it but that are afraid to get it any other way.
Lower teenage abortion rates (35% of teen pregnancies end in abortion).Posted by: AnonymousYes teens shoud be allowed to obtain birth control without parental consent
Of all the many controversies that have affected the United States in the past decades, birth control has been one of the more important topics. Some popular birth control methods are the female and male condoms, and the birth control pill. Even though both of these help protect against pregnancy and the female and the male condoms help protect against HIV and sexually transmitted diseases (STD).But the idea of teens making a decision to add medication into their daily lives is ridiculous, even more since the government has already determined that they are not ready to make an extremely important decision as far as voting. Therefore allowing teens to obtain prescription birth control without parents’ knowledge interferes with the parent/child relationship.
Posted by: Manik123Yes, parents jump to conclusions...
Parents often times jump to conclusions; and so the teen would go without even if they needed birth control for health issues such as overly long or heavy periods. Some use it for acne. (It could also be useful if the teen got raped; less chance of a baby.)
But even if the teen wants it because they are having sex; it's birth control or a baby. Not everyone wants to share their sex life with their parents.Posted by: AnonymousYes, I do believe that they should be able to obtain birth control without parental consent.
I believe this because not every teenage girl is going to tell her parents that she's thinking of having sex. The only situation where I think they would have to ask is if they are already on some type of medication. Other than that, most girls won't ask their parents already, so why should they start?
Posted by: Anonymousteens may have family controversy
Some teens may have issues with parents which makes it impossible to get birth control with their consent. Many parents may have conflicting values with the use of birth control. If teens can not get a hold of birth control or some type of contraceptive they have a higher risk of becoming pregnant. If they are allowed to get birth control without parental consent that risk would be decreased greatly.
Posted by: AnonymousYes, from a teen boy.
One, it's not just for pregnancies, it's for cancer, cysts, acne, migraines, regular and lightened pregnancies, and much more. It basically seems like it'll make them a little less moody, and lets face it, the less moody the better. Now, is it wrong to consent to them having sex at such young ages, yea sure, but we aren't. All this is doing is protecting them from pregnancies that might happen because they aren't gonna tell anyone but their friends if they are active, and they definitely won't ask for help from their parents if they feel uncomfortable or if they feel they will be punished. Also guys don't need consent for protection, but girls do, what's with that? And all a condom does is prevent pregnancy, no other health benefits. Where as the pill has so many benefits, it's kinda crazy not to allow them to have the pill.
Posted by: cdh92594
Save it till marriage
No girl needs to have birth control unless they are having sex. And no girl should be having sex until they are ready to care for a child. You never no what could happen. Sex can ruin a girls life because they never know how they're going to feel until after they actually do it. Sex can ruin anything and everything. Teenagers end up pregnant way before their ready, marriages end because someone cheats on their spouse, and even though its a whole new thing to explore why not wait to explore it with someone you'll be with forever.
Posted by: 123456789smileTeens need guidance.
If parents can't help their teens decide if it is really worth it then who will. We cannot have a society where teens rule without any repercussions. Plus some of the medication ones can cause serious health risks and if the parents don't know about them they might take their child into the hospital for a procedure and the birth control reacting with other required medications could even be fatal.
Posted by: AnonymousKids aren't mature enough.
Minors say that their parents have no say in their sex life. Who provides for those kids who say their parents have no say? Their PARENTS! Their parents buy them food, clothes, and keep a roof over their heads. If kids are old enough to have sex and take birth control without their parents consent, than they can also pay rent and provide for themselves if they feel like their parents have no say.
Posted by: AnonymousParents Need to Be Involved In The Decision to Provide Birth Control for Teens
It is true that teens seem to be starting to have sex at earlier ages. When it comes to obtaining birth control that is a decision that needs to be discussed between the parent and the teen so that the teen will have all of the information about what forms of birth control are available and the potential risks to health related to each of the methods available.
Posted by: AnonymousWe can NOT keep taking power away from the parents...
Parents are losing their ability to parent THEIR children. We can't keep taking that away. If a parent doesn't want their child having sex, than the Government, Planned Parenthood, and liberals can't say otherwise. It's not the Governments job or their right. The parents can not keep losing their ability to raise their kids their way.
Posted by: donald.kellerAre you ready?
If teens believe they are responsible enough to have sex and then they should be responsible enough to talk about contraception with their parents. If a teen doesn't want to talk to their parents about sex then they probably shouldn't engage in it. I'm sixteen years old so its not like I don't see both sides of the debate but the choice is clearly obvious if your under eighteen you should have your parents permission.
Posted by: AnonymousJust too young.
Having sex before marriage s all fine and dandy if you really believe it is. However, If a child is under the age of eighteen then they are still under the parent's care and control and they should be and have the right to be a parent and say no. Once they are eighteen then it is their choice. Otherwise they are still under their parent's roof.
Posted by: AnonymousIt is not okay
A Persuasive Thesis Statement on whether teenage girls should have access to birth control without parent consent or not: birth control for medical purposes and Parents should know what their teenage daughters are getting into.
Arial and her friend are almost home from school, as they drop their bags off at the front door the head right back out. Arial and Jamie are on their way to the local health clinic. As they are checking in the nurse greets them with a warm smile. The nurse lets the girls know that the doctor will be right with them. The two girls are sitting in the waiting room inpatient. As the doctor enters the waiting room he calls out Arial’s name, Arial is squeezing Jasmine’s hand because she is so nervous on what the doctor will say. Jasmine and Arial are sitting in the back room listening to the doctor tell Arial about all the different options she has. Arial has decided what would be best for her. The doctor has now given her a sample back and is saying goodbye. The girls are now rushing to get home. Arial’s mom as no clue that the girls are not at the house waiting for her when she gets home from work. The girls are now rushing up the steps into her bedroom. Arial is sitting on her bed pulling out a package full of pills. Her mom suddenly barges in as Arial is trying to keep this one big secret from her mom. Arial just barely had enough time to shove the pills under her pillow before her mom had time to ask what she was doing.
Many teens do not have the support that is wanted in situations like these from their parents. If parents are not allowing their daughters to get on birth control, think, is okay for the government to take over their parenting job and allow their daughters to have access to something they don’t want their kids on? Even though teens need to be having safe sex is it really the government’s job to support that. Parents have the right to know what their children are getting into. Although some teens are acting upon it in a smart way and wanting to prevent pregnancy it does not make this act acceptable. Over half of teenagers on birth control are on it without their parent’s permission. If one has to hide being on birth control one is not old enough or mature enough to be on it.
Posted by: AnonymousThink it's a "free pass" to have sex.
Kids don't know that sex is a scary thing and you could get pregnant, if they think they can get on birth control they may use at as a "free pass" to have sex because they think they wont get pregnant. They also have to realize there are STD's and birth control does not control that.
Posted by: AnonymousIt Should Not
Although I hate telling my mom my personal problems if i were to ever take birth control which i wouldn't i would want her to support me. I honestly think if you need birth control you shouldn't even be having sex as simple as that. If your not ready for sex then just wait until your married that way you don't have to worry about getting pregnant. There is always condoms which protect you also from std s which birth control doesn't duh.
Posted by: julie21