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Is it romantic to wait until marriage to make love?

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Started: 2/16/2018 Category: Miscellaneous
Updated: 3 years ago Status: Post Voting Period
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You don't have to be religious to believe this. Make the fist move.


1. I think it's not romantic. Lets say you wait for 3 years for sex and at first night you realize your partner don't reach orgasm. After that all nights are fails. you or your partner becomes angry/depressed etc.

I think couple who have bad sex life often divorce.
Debate Round No. 1


No one expects you to wait 3 years. It is up to you. I just think if I am really into a man, it will feel better.


I agree. it's up to you.
But it's just stereotype: after marriage you can have sex (in some cultures you can only have sex to reproduce)
Sex i think is part of love and don't rely on marriage status.
Debate Round No. 2


I am so not Mrs. Duggar. I don't plan on having children, but I might try to save myself for marriage.


Again i agree with you. sex is not only for making kids and saving yourself until marriage is good.

But saving yourself is from female point. we talk about women and men. Often male had more sex then female in relationship until marriage. Okay its nice to be virgin till your marriage but what happens if your partner had sex? i think if you wait for marriage to have sex then both should be virgin. if not then it's not romantic and bad to virgin's side.
Debate Round No. 3
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Posted by FanboyMctroll 3 years ago
I totally agree with Con, only ugly people or people who are terrible at sex would propose that, in other words it's an entrapment way of getting someone, you suck at sex so you say "wait until we get married" then after the marriage when they realize you suck at it then they can try to trap you by saying "we are married now, this is the sh!tty sex you get to look forward to for the rest of your life"

Nothing romantic about that!!!
Posted by Masterful 3 years ago
Thats just cruel my dear. You're telling him he can only pork you when he marries you, that's bribery.
It's also a restriction of fun and you're implying you're not sexually attracted to him.
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Reasons for voting decision: Con agreed with Pro each round.

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