Is he gay? Straight? Bisexual? Or what?Posted 3 years Ago

A male acquaintance of mine talks to and flirts with (attractive) women regularly. He goes out on dates with women, touches them, kisses them, and sometimes discusses other more private sexual things he says does with them.

At the same time, he claims he is gay.

No one I know has ever seen him flirt with a man, touch a man suggestively or sexually, kiss a man, or hear of him discussing sexual or romantic encounters of any kind with a man. He says he's attracted to men but doesn't want to do anything sexual or romantic with them and would rather do sexual things with women.

Within our social circle everyone wonders why he says he's gay, with most thinking it's just a line to interest women or make them think he's non-threatening. When we ask him about it, though, he insists that he's gay.

I'm fine with him being gay if that's the case, but I think it's a lie. His actions don't match with what he's saying.

I'm here to see what others think about this. Based on what I've said would you say he's gay? Straight? Bisexual? Please also explain why you believe as you do. Thank you.
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