Are guys that like having sex with transexual male to female (MTF) gay?

Asked by: jaksunmadness
  • Yes the man is gay

    I think so because the person was born a man and is still a man. It is just that their appearance was altered. The man having sexual intercourse with the transsexual has desires to be with a man. Since when did appearance determine your gender? No matter what the transsexual male do, it is a man and will always be one.

  • Man + Man = Gay Couple

    A transgender woman is still a homosexual man. He may have a complete makeover and have his genitals re-done, But he is still a man (and will forever be).
    We are the gender that we were born with, And there are only two: males and females. Those who like to call themselves "transgender females/women" are in denial about themselves and about straight men, For a heterosexual guy would rather die than to have any physical contact with a male, Whether that male still looks like one or not.

  • Man + Man = Gay Couple

    A transgender woman is still a homosexual man. He may have a complete makeover and have his genitals re-done, But he is still a man (and will forever be).
    We are the gender that we were born with, And there are only two: males and females. Those who like to call themselves "transgender females/women" are in denial about themselves and about straight men, For a heterosexual guy would rather die than to have any physical contact with a male, Whether that male still looks like one or not.

  • Yes, Its Gay.

    People are born with what God gave them. God doesn't make mistakes. Only people destroy their environment and themselves. Making excuses and giving it fancy scientific names doesn't change facts. I am not going to try and change anyone's mind. Hells fire will do that when God damns you. But if you're going to be a sinner and live in sin, at least have backbone enough to admit it.

  • If they have a penis

    If they have a penis they are a man. If they can’t have a baby they are a man. So it is what it is. Yes they are gay because you are still sleeping with a man. That’s just facts. So regardless of they way they look , feel, smell, etc. in the end they are still men.

  • Biologically still male

    Yes it's gay. It's simple. He was born a man and will die a man. Having "female" on paper or making a choice to live as a female does not eliminate the biological aspects of being a male. You need to remember a transexual female only looks that way because they have surgically had those changes.. Nothing is "natural" or they way they were born. So it's 110% gay.

  • Biology and Psychology (gender specifics)

    Being transexual is not limited to them appearing like women, its on a psychological level as well. All it rakes is for one to have a "i feel like the opposite sex trapped in their biological body." An average guy can be one if he thinks this way. If a regular man felt this way and had sex with a guy then its gay, but there should be no exceptions. Its not gay to be attracted to the feminine aestheticism of a transexual, but if you have sex with like I mentioned above, thats gay, and if a sexual act is performed using the genitals of a transexual, that is gay as well, because it proves that the guy is attracted to more than just the feminine beauty but the male body parts, which is gay. Biologically, a man can look loke beyonce but there is one thing that defines all mammals and most living things, and that is the gender. Only hermaphrodites are immune to the gay and straight alignment. They can pick and choose whomever.

  • Surgery and Hormones

    Transsexuals that are MTF are nothing more than men with mutilated bodies and hormones they have altered in their bodies. Then they have make up and clothing to try and mask themselves further. Men that are attracted to these freaks are fooled into thinking they are still straight and having sex with a woman but they are no more different than a trap.

  • Straight guy here thats been in sexual encounters with cd/ts

    If they look like/smell like women if they have smooth baby skin like a women and they forsure could pass as a women if they had there penis removed then a straight man could easily fall victim to the ts/cd passables........Regardless of religion men are meant to be attracted to women like fat people on cake lol

  • (1) Consider If You Will...

    It is not uncommon for the fanatically religious or profoundly ignorant to make the argument that Transgender life is a choice and that genitalia is the supporting argument for a binary system. As everyone knows, genitals are organs. While organs and their functions is complex enough to those who are not educated in physiology and medical science, there is a far more complex organ involved in human sexuality. The genitalia argument is narrow in scope and presumably allows people to remain in their comfort zones, away from errant sexual thoughts and “satanic temptations”. The problem with this belief is that human sexuality occurs in and is determined by the brain, the most complex organ in the human body. While appropriate medical treatment of an individual is related to their birth gender, their identity is determined by their brain, as is true with every human being. To reduce this discussion to one of genitalia is flawed on its face.

    Throughout history, prior to the installation of “organized religion”, there are many cultures that embraced transgender individuals as enlightened people who were often elevated in status and played an advisory role to leaders in their societies. It wasn’t until Christianity took hold that a binary gender paradigm was forced down, largely driven by the Catholic Church. With the Vatican being located in Rome, there are some not so loose comparisons to be made between organized crime and organized religion. Through submission to organized religion you’re buying protection from going to hell. As Colonialism crept into many parts of the world, this narrow conceptualization of human sexuality was propagated. As with any issue, one need only to “follow the money” to understand why heterosexuality was the only supported expression of intimacy and condoned form of marriage. When churches pass the collection plate or the comptroller collects money to fund government parasites, I mean employees, a growing group of parishioners and taxpayers are needed to sustain these non-producing entities. The church recognized that, left to our own devices and base instincts, the desire for sexual pleasure would potentially result in non-heterosexual relationships which threatened reproduction. Metaphorically, religion is a chastity belt that obstructs an open mind. So what is sexual pleasure?

  • Sex and Gender

    Sex is determined with the chromosomes you are born with xy mal xx female.

    Gender refers to your genitals, so a penis makes you a man and a vagina a woman.

    You are attracted to a specific Gender, so if a man is into woman trans- (has a vagina) that does not make them gay.

    Plus, you could easily bang a girl from behind and it could be the same thing for a trans (with a penis or vagina).

  • Trans women are women, end of story

    Sometimes people have birth defects that are fixed later in life - sometimes babies are born with cleft lips; sometimes babies are born with twisted feet; sometimes babies are born with the wrong sex glands for their gender identity. It happens, and all of these things can be fixed or at least mitigated.
    If you have sex with a person who was born with a disfigured face and had it fixed, you're not banging an ugly person. If you have sex with a person who was born with a disability and had it fixed, you are not having sex with a disabled person. And if you have sex with someone who was born with an unwanted male phenotype, and they had that fixed... You're not having sex with a man.
    If you need any more evidence, consider that some of the most homophobic governments on the planet - Russia, Iran, Turkey for example - allow citizens to change their legal gender. This is clearly not because of social pressure, but because they recognise the legitimacy of trans identities.

  • Transwomen are not gay males.

    The question, intentionally or otherwise, has been formed in a manner to promote the idea from the outset that Transwomen are just gay males. It is a simple strategy to promote the idea that Transwomen were born male, have male chromosomes and therefore are male forever. You can see the above strategy at work, as each of my opponents on the Yes side have started their response with the assertion that a Transwoman is male.

    Questioning the true sexuality of transwomen remains a major strategy used by people opposed to the existence of transgender people. The objective of people opposed to the society’s acceptance of transgender existing is to segregate and isolate transwomen from the rest of society. And to reinforce the meaning behind the question the answer is implied that if you’re a male and you sleep with a no-op or pre-op transwomen you must be gay. However, if you’re a male and sleep with a post-op transwoman you have been tricked by a gay male pretending to be female.

    The reality is transwomen can be: straight meaning sexual attraction to males; lesbian meaning sexual attraction to females; bi-sexual meaning sexual attraction males and females; and asexual meaning they have no sexual feelings or desires. This differentiation is because sexuality and gender are two very different and unique human conditions.

    There has been enough scientific investigation to clearly show that transgender exists. There has also been enough science to demonstrate that transgender brains are exactly that, transgender brains. Two scientific investigations independent of each other have concluded that it is wrong to say that a MtF transgender person has a female brain, but it is also wrong to say they have a male brain; they have MtF transgender brain which more closely resembles a female brain then a male brain.

    We know the brain is the most powerful organ in the body (way more powerful than genitals) and it contains our thoughts, ideas, feeling and emotions that is our innermost understanding of ourselves. Because of this a MtF transgender innermost understanding of themselves is female, femininity drives their emotions and actions. MtF transgender think, act and behave like females, they are women – maybe you can segregate and say transwomen, but they are still women.

    Males who are sexually attracted to females are straight; males who are sexually attracted to males are gay; males who are sexually attracted to males and females are bi-sexual; and males can be asexual meaning they have no sexual feelings or desires. Clearly only males who are straight and bi-sexual are sexually attracted to females. Gay males are not attracted to females.

    We have established, with scientific evidence, that transwomen behave and act like other females in society. We have established that gay males are not sexually attracted to femininity i.e. women, including transwomen. We have established that straight and bisexual males are sexually attracted to femininity i.e. women, including transwomen.

    So, guys that like having sex with transwomen are not gay.

  • I dont see it as them being a man, u cold easily be with a women and have sex through the bottom, its no difference

    I dont see it as them being a man, u cold easily be with a women and have sex through the bottom, its no difference. U could feel the same way about them being feminine as they h ave all there life. Shudnt judge a book by its cover! Tru say

  • It's never that simple.

    MTF Transexuals are males turned FEMALE. End of discussion. We can play the semantics game all you want but in the end, we establish our own definitions. By the end of the day, you would refer to a MTF as 'she', not he, because that's the pronoun she prefers. The argument that MTFs are still "biologically and psychologically male" is invalid for two reasons:
    1.) Biology (consequently but partially psychology) falls under gender identification, not sexual orientation. Gender = who we are; Sexuality = who we're attracted to. Do not confuse the two. This discussion is targeted towards transSEXUALS, NOT transgenders as the title dictates.
    2.) If a MTF were really male in psychology, then why would she feel trapped inside the opposite sex? Psychology is still a very young field of science that relates to the many mysteries of the brain. It can be said that MTFs were once Female brains trapped inside male bodies. It happens, and there are several stories and testimonies to back this up. Also, homosexuality is defined as attraction to the same SEX. Again, sexuality = attraction. So if a male is attracted NOT to the same sex, then he is considered anything BUT homosexual. He would definitely not be gay.

  • MTF are women

    MTF transsexuals or male to female means exactly that. Someone WAS male and is NOT male anymore. Gender is more mental than it is physical and homosexuality is defined by being attracted to the same gender somebody IS not WAS. People should understand who transsexuals are and that just because they were not born with the right genitalia, it does not make them any less of a woman or man.

  • They are definitely not gay

    MTF transexuals are exactly that. Male to female. They are no longer a male, but a female. If a male has sex with a female, then he is a heterosexual, not a homosexual, correct? So therefore, a male who has sexual intercourse with a person who is MTF is straight.
    People need to be more understanding of what being a transexual is and also, to be more accepting of them.

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