When I was younger, I didn't believe in true love, Surprisingly enough. It was a nice thought and I enjoyed the sappy, Romantic movies that I'm sure most people actually hate, But to me, True love was as real as unicorns. However, Years ago I met a man who changed that thought. We were together for about a year when I decided to break it off because of the distance and honestly because I thought it would be better for him. Shortly after our contact had been cut off, I would have vivid dreams about him that I would wake up crying to. At first, I just thought it was normal heartbreak. Its been almost two years since we broke it off and for a while, After that my dreams had almost completely stopped. I had even started dating someone new. That relationship didn't last too long but it was showing me that I had moved on and I barely thought about him anymore. About a month ago I had another dream about him where I saw him for the first time. It was that feeling of completeness and fullness. My heart was beating fast and I felt like I didn't need anything else in my life. When I woke up I started to think about it constantly because why after all this time is he back in my head? I then came to this conclusion: I only love the memory of him. If I saw him today then I wouldn't feel like that because he's changed and he is no longer the person I fell for. After that realization I started to feel a lot better about it. I didn't think I'd ever have to face him again, But I recently saw him and instantly that feeling of completeness and fullness came rushing back. I broke up love into four categories that day. 1. ) the love you feel for friends, 2. ) the love you feel for family, 3. ) the love you feel for a significant other [I've felt this one several times] and 4. ) the last love: the love I felt for him. I didn't used to believe in true love but I'm not sure what else to call it. I don't think it was fate, I don't think that it's "meant to be or anything" but I do think that what I feel is true love. It was just luck. There is 7 billion people on this Earth and love is boiled all down to compatibility. Someone on this planet has to be compatible enough to make you feel true love. It doesn't mean everyone will meet that person, But I think I've met mine.
It's not just an imaginary feeling you have; it is powerful force. My grandparents have recalled stories about the feeling they had when they first met. And the one thing they said about true love was that they felt it in an instant; almost like a lightning bolt hitting them.
Love is an action not every action comes from love and the dance these play is what often misleads us. Not to mention ur past hurts often can make us have the wrong feeling towards an act of love. Think about the relationship between you and a pet what is the correct feeling. If your pet shits in the house you might see that relationship differently Ben though nothing has changed. This is the cause of most human suffering wwe hurt each other and we create filters to protect ourselves. Those filters need to be updated and checked or you will miss out. Love is in sharing love is in meeting friends and family. Love is sharing your hopes dreams and desires. Love is trust. Love is not a feeling love moves forward. I matter what . Feelings change the instant they happen or they become dilution. I experience I feel is honest I feel I think I feel again is an illusion . Love is real in fact that's why it's true. And those actions can lead two people together to to find the truest of all loved the love of oneself which then leads to a union made of action not illusion. Real actual somehow this is not taught. This is how we no we never die because we live on through the love and pain we put into the world karma. True love entirely has no story no shadow it heals all wounds and it's free. Open your eyes the hurt is the shadow of our wounded egos. True love is equal given and never holds us back. All you have to do is show up open your eyes and allow it. You can't stop an action or change it past Tense so please be careful how you change its course so that it does not leave you. It's free it's the only thing we actually have and it limitless. We have been lied to our whole lives about what we need to make us slaves. All we need is love is the truth and when we give it freely and it's returned we are more than we are alone. It's the answer to war politics and religion it's there enemy. Tee fool ourselves love is free and will break us until we know it's truth. Ecause all of these false gods are only shadows of love. It's like a flash light that blinds us when we look at it because it's to much but if you close your eyes you can feel it's warmth. Stop being afraid of it and we will all be leaders lovers followers everything. Limitless caring and powerful and blessed with abundance. We are all shackled to eachother we just don't see it. If we feed eachother we won't even notice. If we take care of ourselves someone will have to starve.
I get it. Love cause thing to go sour, people cheat, people have affair, etc. I seen it with my eyes, in my own family. My first boyfriend use me for money. Love is like a knife with two faces. I get it.
But I do believe as an individual, you can love someone unconditionally as an act of true love. Loving someone is not a sin, it was never at fault, but the bad side of human nature was, and that's what it hurt people. Love doesn't hurt anyone, it only give you happiness. Life is a challenge, there will be obstacle in a relationship, but human needs to have the courage to fight through it and not running away from it just because they were hurt from it. After all Love is one of the strongest connection out there. It's hard to hate.
Love lead you in a relationship, and in the world of relationship there will always be some "bad virus" that hurt you. If you are hurt, these "virus" are at fault, not love. Love just lead you into a relationship with the intention of giving happiness and love.
I would like to believe in true love, why else are we here only to repopulate? To work our self's to death, or as the result of other peoples need to procreate? No we are not we are here to love, to create and to inspire others! So what if we need something or it's just that we are getting something from your better half, who cares even if the whole love thing is just your brains chemical reaction to some one the fact of the mater stays the same, you had that reaction to that certain person! If you are meant to be you will be. Otherwise that person was meant to be a lesson to help teach you how to truly love the person that was meant to be yours forever. Any kind of love should not come easy other wise its not love it's just affection. Even when it comes to your parents or siblings, you may not fight all the time but you still fight yet at the end of the day you still love them? That my dear is true love! It doesn't have to be a significant other that you truly love. When looked up the definition of true love is : 'A person whom one loves' no where there stands what type of person. So as long as you love your parents or siblings of even a guy or girl you are dating it doesn't matter, love is love. And I personally don't believe in perfect love but I also believe you can love more than one person. Think about it a mother loves both her children equally doesn't she and yet she also loves her husband. So yes it's possible to love more than one person. I am also a where that there are exceptions to these examples. But think about it love is love. And yes some love is easier than others, some love you have to work hard for and some love just catches you of guard. I shall end with this, will you not throw yourself in front of a bus to protect your family? You would wouldn't you? Is that not the definition of true love right there?
Its a feeling that shouldn't be analysed. If you are willing to place someone Else's life above yours, a feeling that you cant live without the person otherwise your heart will be ripped out. Where you look at that person and they seem perfect to you even though there might be flaws(you might see them but they wont bother at all). Where there is no such thing as cliché. When you are willing to be the least. Sounds like something from a dream I never want to stop believing.
There is a significant difference between 'ideal' love and true love. Ideal love is where everything is going perfectly, as though in the movies. True love is learning to accept someone for all their faults, over a period of time, where you fall in love more and more every day. If you are closed-minded, you won't be able to see what is truly around you.
Now, not everyone gets married and lives a life with there wife/husband therefore I can't really say true love is true. But maybe it's cause of something they did in the past that took away there "true love" (AKA a punishment). True love at first site is stupid to me, cause its wrong I liked someone at 2nd grade till 8th. I move on to high school and I see someone with fantastic personality but as far as i'm concerned we have different sexual orientations. Love hurts, it can be the most painful thing that also leads to death.
I say that it does because this is a question that is unanswerable and I want it to be true. There's really no evidence against this, no reason why it would be unlikely considering that there are so many period in this works, so I'll just be optimistic and say it does
It never fails, it is the love we feel for our children, and may be the kind of love when mixed with romantic feelings we have for our mate. It can also be for anyone we love wholeheartedly. When we feel that intensity for a new romantic interest, it can consume us, hence all the love songs, stories, poetry composed since recorded time, especially if true love is not reciprocated.
To have "True Love", you would also have to have "False Love". Is there such a thing as False Love. No. By definition it wouldn't be love. "False Love" would be hate wouldn't it? Therefore there is no "True Love". There is only love. Either you love someone or you don't.
No because I have thought that I found the supposed true love everyone burns for and he just turned out to be a dud. I just don't believe fairy tales come true anymore because I'm not a little girl anymore and I've been hurt so I know how bad it feels to be hurt..
There is no such thing as true love. Most people meet and date at first because of lust or social pressure to find a mate. People stay together because of inertia, or because they settle for person or a situation that is not perfect. There is no ideal love like in the movies.
Although I believe love exists, people seem to have changed the meaning. Love isn't a feeling between two people, love is a commitment to stay together for life. Interestingly, the countries with the lowest divorce rates are the ones that support arranged marriages. A poll was taken of the couples on why they stay together. Most said it was because they were committed to loving each other, no matter what they felt.
I think we want to believe in true love and we want it to exist but love is an illusion. We are infatuated by someone or we are drawn to their looks. I believe we can love our family and our friends but the love everybody is so obsessed with isn't real we trick ourselves into thinking it is because we are bored or lonely or crave intimacy.
Most people meet their spouse at work or in college, and they usually have careers in the same field. My parents do, and so do my two best friends. My parents are both teachers, and a friend of mine has parents that are both in the medical field. It is unrealistic and naive to believe that only one person is meant for you in this world filled with approximately 7 billion people. It's definitely possible that you will meet someone who will have a very large impact on your life, but that doesn't mean that they are your "one true love." Humans get married in an effort to always have companionship. Fireworks only last for so long in a romantic relationship. 7 billion people... Yet there is only one for you?
Whoever actually believes that romantic relationship love is real...I feel sorry for you. I’ve never seen nor felt love and I firmly believe that only like family love is real,that fairytale true love crap is a myth. I’ve wasted 15 years trying to find what people call “true love”. It’s fake, please friends don’t waste your time trying to find it, I really don’t want anybody else wasting like one fifth of their life.
1) Would you marry someone if he/she is so ugly when you want to throw up whenever you see them?
2) Would you marry someone if he/she has no financial income and have to rely on you for everything?
Love is the optimal option after the analysis of the materialized condition.
The way humans have evolved, there is no such thing. Humans are damaged. They're broken and as a result, people have become terrified of loving anyone. Hell, people barely love themselves. Why do you think people never open up? Why do you think people push others away the minute they get close to them. I see this crap happening all the time. People say they want to be loved, but they are not open to give and recieve love because of the barriers they have created. Many people have lost the concept of give and take. Instead, they want you to give and not expect no love in return. This is pure bulls**t! As humans, i think deep down we all have a desire to be loved, but the problem is people have lost the art to care for each other. People only care about themselves. People dont care about what you want or need. People care only what matters to them. They only care who and what "they" want to care about. Its not about you. Its about them. People dont want something real, something deep. Instead, people want to remain closed, hide and avoid people. Everyone is all f**ked up and afraid and no one gives a sh*t and yet im suppose to believe that true love is real?? Noooo!
No, true love does not exist, *Pfft* You even sound dumb saying it. 'True Love' is something people make up because they want their feeling to mean more to their significant other. If they say, "You are my one true love" they are trying to single you out from a bazillion people and make yo feel special. But there are tons of fish in the sea and you have not met every single person in the world, so you may very well not truly love your significant other.