Fathers are apart of the family and should take full responsibility. A son my not get all the facts of becoming a young man from his mother alone, and can not explain some of the emotional factors in his life. Also he will have a perfect role model to look up 2. Indeed, a father always complete the family and will be able to help provide food, money ,shelter and able to provide emotionally c=
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I am an only child who doesn't see her dad very often. I think it would help in a child's life for the father figure to be apart of their life. I remember when I got a step dad last year, I felt like he was taking my mom away from me. I couldn't think of him being apart of my family. I still can't, but I try to cope as well as possible. The father figure is very important in a child';s life. If they are young, or they're a teenager, they need their father figure in their lives.
As a single parent, I raised my child and he missed a lot without his father being there. I put him in college with money only. I am not going to be in debt for life. I will do whatever it takes to let my son strive for his career, even if I have only social security to live off of for the rest of my life and not savings. His career matters that much to me.
When a child only has one parent, it's much harder on the mother to provide for the child emotionally and financially. Some children may grow up with questions about why their father chose not to be a part of their lives, and could struggle with self esteem issues. Growing up without a father can subconsciously lead a child to believe that a traditional family structure is not necessary, and could prompt the child to repeat the one-parent family structure in his or her own life.
I believe that it does matter if a child is raised without a dad or not. Only having one parent makes it much harder on the mother. There are also things that a dad is more suited to do or hep with than a mom would be. All kids should grow up with a dad.
This is not a black and white answer. I do believe that having a father in a household, provided that he is a decent, upstanding role model, is beneficial to a child as opposed to a single parent household. That is not to say that there aren't thousands of children that grow up to be excellent adults that have come from single parent homes, but as a general rule, having a father in their lives is preferred.
My dad was raised by his mom and he lived with his two sisters. His parents had gotten divorced when he was a toddler, So as long as he could remember ihe only had a mom. He has said that he was happy even without having a dad, And might have preferred not having a dad over actually having one. He said he didn't want to be taught how to toughen up and hide his emotions or be forced into sports just because he is a guy. He is very happy right now and is just like any other man except for the fact that he does not ever hide his emotions from anyone. He ended up having a perfectly normal life with a good job, Loving wife, And children (my sister and I). This is why i think that it does not matter if a child is raised with a dad or not. . . Because you end up the same anyways.
I live in a household with four female adults, and two of them have a few male friends. I am a 14-year-old girl, and I was raised without a father. My mother let's her friend Brian come over at least once a week so I can have a male role-model. He's even helped me with some things I can't talk to my mom about. I've struggled through depression and Brian helped me through it. He's not my father, but he's like an uncle to me. I was raised with only my mom, and from the time I was born to the time I was 9, I never had a male role-model (other than boys at school). But when Brian became my mom's friend, I was overwhelmed to have a male role-model. So you don't have to have a true father with you, just as long as you know a male adult that could be helpful.
Not to discount the importance of having a male figure, but most studies on this issue focus on a child having two parents. Whether or not the figure has to include a man or woman hasn't been delved into as much. I can't say otherwise until evidence is found that children without a father figure fare worse.