One sided divorce I don't want a divorce. My husband and I spent years talking about how we would never get divorced. Especially after having our daughter. But one day he just decided he didn't love me anymore after a 6 year marriage. He started seeing someone else. How is that okay??? How is it okay for him to hurt me this way? An unwanted divorce causes physical pain. Not just emotional pain. So why can't anything be done to stop it? It shouldn't be so easy to walk away. I know in my heart that if he and I would just go to counseling, we could have made if work. If he just got the help he needed to deal with the problems of his youth, my child and I wouldn't not have to feel the sting of his absence. Being left by your spouse for another woman is the most painful experience I've ever been through. I've lost 2 grandparents, an aunt, and 3 close friends in the past 4 years and then my husband left me. I can assure you, I know pain. I know loss. Going through a divorce that you don't want, that you can't stop, knowing you have given everything you have to make it work is THE most painful thing a person can go through. And I don't think it should be legal for someone to hurt another person this way, without any repercussion.