the blame points to the parents and society. do you let your son play barbie? do you differentiate to your son what are for girls and what are for boys? does your father have ball-time with you? do you watch transformers or carebears?
yes, of course, it is a choice.
there are people who thinks they are vampires. are they really vampires or are they just retarded? why are they forcing to be blood suckers when the reality is theyre numskulls.
when u try to be what you aren't.. that's not normal.