That's what happens when you don't vaccinate. You are given the wonderful gift of outliving your child. If it weren't for vaccines we'd still have Smallpox and Polio. Vaccines aren't a bad thing, they protect against countless diseases, if you choose to not vaccinate your child you're putting those who can't get vaccinated at risk.
Not vaccinating will cause diseases for both the child and people around them it is not ethical to refuse vaccination the religious exemption is out of hand barely any religions refuse vaccination the child should be put in a good home where the parents will know something and vaccinate like normal people.
The best solution would be to give out awards! You should definitely get an award for not vaccinating! Based on years of getting awards for doing the unpopular but hard work in every sport, this has shown to be an effective way to show appreciation and a job well done!