Hateful? I'm simply posting a question. You, the audience, decide the outcome. Offensive? Well, being offended is something you have to learn at some point in life. You might as well now. Offended? Great, welcome to the first world.
It depends on the specific femenist. I know many femenists who are feminine and i know many who are less feminine and i know feminists who are guys. What point are you trying to make?
Its not like femenism is to oromote femininity its to defend women from discrimination.
The femenists ive met think you shouldnt have to behave a certain way because of what soxiwty tells you and the organs you have. They think of you want to be feminine, be feminine. If you dont, then dont.