Yes, I have the "disease to please". While prioritizing someone else’s needs is the hallmark of a close relationship, it can be costly for self-esteem and mental health if it means neglecting your own needs. Ask yourself this do you enjoy making others happy just because you enjoy it, or do you do it because you, deep down, need approval from others to be happy with yourself?
No, I know when to stop trying to please others when I begin to start sacrificing too much of my own happiness. You are not responsible for someone else’s happiness and they are not responsible for yours. No one should want another to sacrifice their own happiness so that they themselves can be happy.