Venusara ... I think you misunderstood my post. What I meant was this ... If a woman has a complicated pregnancy & no other children, she may feel the desire to risk her life for that unborn baby. The desire for a child can be a great motivation. However, if she has a couple of children at home, she has to consider that risking her life could rob them of a mother that they need. It becomes an entirely different equation. Some women, given their faith and/or abortion position, might prefer to risk their life instead of the unborn's. There is no generic, simple answer that fits every situation.