So we can both handle situations together easier. As well as we can both discuss about smart topics, instead of having to explain consistently upon the topic.
If I HAD to choose, I'd want her to be smarter, so I can learn some stuff and come out of the relationship with some new information as well as good times.
This, or of same intelligence.
My current one is attracted to me for being smarter. If she was smarter ... i might not be on her radar and we might not be together anymore. I don't want that.