Motion: Women fear getting raped more than getting murdered.

Posted by: Raperights

Y or N? I invite women to express their honest thoughts, emotions or positions on the motion.

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11 Total Votes
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Yes.

Women would rather get murdered than raped, when faced with only the two options.
7 votes
3 comments
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No.

Women would rather get raped than murdered, when faced with only the two options.
4 votes
0 comments
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dietorangesoda says2014-07-11T17:13:41.1685575-05:00
Ik i'd rather be raped them murdered i might be traumatized for life but at least i'd be alive
Sfaulkner says2014-07-11T17:15:53.0494622-05:00
I wouldn't know (I am not a woman), but I would understand why some would rather be murdered. If you were raped you would have to live your entire life with that burden. Some would be able to handle it. I just think that this can not be generalized, every person is different.
discomfiting says2014-07-11T17:37:44.3719845-05:00
What's the point of life if you're scarred for the rest of it?
debatability says2014-07-11T17:38:05.2144058-05:00
I think it really is different for every person. I'd rather be raped because I know I could get over the horrific experience if given time and counseling. However, I can definitely see why some women would prefer being murdered.
mishapqueen says2014-07-11T17:39:22.7313027-05:00
I know I could get over it too, but I'd rather skip the pain and go to heaven, honestly.
discomfiting says2014-07-11T17:39:32.6529663-05:00
Sfaulkner, your gender doesn't determine your eligibility to be raped.
Raperights says2014-07-11T17:41:23.2711845-05:00
Thank you all for participating in this poll and leaving your opinions. I strongly encourage you to keep freely expressing your opinion on this issue. Thank you very much. Raperights.
mishapqueen says2014-07-11T17:42:02.3203257-05:00
You're welcome.
dietorangesoda says2014-07-11T17:46:41.8392314-05:00
Because discomforting while i might never truly get over it after some counseling and help i can get on with my life if i'm dead im gone forever
discomfiting says2014-07-11T17:48:05.7228702-05:00
Maybe, unless you're one of the many rape victims that commit suicide.
MasturDbtor says2014-07-11T18:07:42.6500650-05:00
Not a woman so I didn't answer it but I don't get responses like "it would make me feel dirty". Rape to me is a very black and white violation of a person's autonomy. If I was ever raped the only thing I would feel afterwards is anger and a desire to see the perpetrator thrown in prison and hope that once he's in prison he would get raped. Would it effect me mentally? Definitely, but I don't understand being effected to think less of yourself I'd feel a stronger sense of entitlement and a stronger drive to get what ever I want to make up for the horrible experience. If rape would make me afraid of anything it would be the fear of being controlled by the rape experience and having that ruin my life and I'd even go out of my way to negate "fears" I even suspect might be lurking in my unconscious.
MasturDbtor says2014-07-11T18:08:49.4648650-05:00
And yes I know men can get raped but the question does say women.
dietorangesoda says2014-07-11T18:11:07.1974307-05:00
Ok yes and if i would commit suicide then i guess it would be for nothing but dont forget all the women who lead happy healthy lives even after a rape
mishapqueen says2014-07-11T18:12:00.2374307-05:00
MasturDbtor, the reason why I said that is because rape ruins the greatest gift a woman can give to her husband in my perspective.
reece says2014-07-11T20:16:39.6106872-05:00
Mishapqueen: what? You mean virginity? You can't be serious...?
mishapqueen says2014-07-11T20:18:08.5460207-05:00
Yes. I am.
reece says2014-07-11T20:20:35.6992383-05:00
Mishapqueen: Treating a women as a sex object discussing in that perspective
reece says2014-07-11T20:20:54.8873613-05:00
Is
discomfiting says2014-07-11T20:22:46.6925159-05:00
I thought "pro-lifers" thought life was the greatest gift which is why they care so much about making sure fetuses are born.
reece says2014-07-11T20:23:10.5137159-05:00
I know your bible teaches bad morals of sexism but come on..
Haroush says2014-07-11T20:24:25.0973159-05:00
Sexism... Here we go... Down the yellow brick road again..
reece says2014-07-11T20:28:30.6574759-05:00
LOL i meant disgusting not discussing before
mishapqueen says2014-07-11T20:32:31.5066003-05:00
Reece: You do not understand my point. I'm not being sexist or making women be a sex object. In fact, quite the opposite. I was not making a judgement on anyone else, I was speaking for myself.
Haroush says2014-07-11T20:35:16.2128338-05:00
When a man and a woman stay pure for each other it gives them the most ultimate form of a bonding experience that can be experienced by humans themselves..
1814Username says2014-07-11T20:42:13.0448338-05:00
Oh Please. I guess what the creator of this question is getting at is the rape culture in America. The rape culture that no statistics back up at all. Rape is no different than being mugged or attacked in another way. Heck, half the rapes in America occur when women are drunk and most don't remember the rape or whether or not they consented. Yes, there are women who get violently raped, but one would be amazed at the number of statutory rapes and drunken sex rapes. What really needs to be discussed is the numbers of men who are falsely accused of rape or the number of cases where both parties are drunk but the man goes to prison. In America, apparently women are not responsible for getting drunk and men are responsible for getting drunk. Women cant choose when they are drunk, but apparently men can. I have sat in on many a counseling session with rape victims and what I found is that they use it as a crutch for life. In the industry, it is called the abuse excuse. Rape of course is wrong, but it is not the cut and dry subject the media tries to paint. Just look at the woman who falsely accused five different men of rape. That woman ruined 5 different lives because the stigma will always be with those men. Yet, she did not get a day of jail time. Then there is the rise of alcoholism among women in college. Funny, how the rise in rapes coincides directly with that. Lots of women screw drunk and then regret and then claim rape. Regret is not rape. Then there is the 50 shades of grey angle. Women pulled that book off the shelves like crazy. It was basically a S&M novel. But I guess for a woman, it is okay to be abused if it gets one an Audi and Money. Such freaking hypocrisy. I have found in my life that many women speak out of both sides of their mouths. If a situation benefits them, then it is a choice. If a situation does not benefit them, it is bias or abuse. We all see this. We see women using sex to make millions when they are young and then when they get old and can no longer make money off our sex, they say they were victims. Again rape is wrong, but make no mistake about this --- the situation is not as cut and dry as people might believe. We haven't even got into the numbers of mentally ill women that see abuse everywhere. I once counseled a woman who was literally insane and she literally made up her entire rape. It was all in her head. If it wasn't for DNA evidence --- a man's life would have been utterly destroyed.
reece says2014-07-11T20:57:53.9611041-05:00
Mishapqueen: okay if you're just placing that opinion on your self. Haroush: Pureness is subjective, i consider friendship the best bonding experience that we as a social species can have for now.
mishapqueen says2014-07-11T20:59:27.3272465-05:00
Reece, I'm glad I meet your approval! ;)
Cold-Mind says2014-07-12T02:29:34.3029705-05:00
It is not worse, but chances for it are higher.
Haroush says2014-07-12T08:13:21.9090021-05:00
Well Reece that simply isn't logical my friend. You say I say a lot of things that are subjective, but the point is you just would love to be right all of the time. The fact of the matter is I was talking about pureness in an intimate relationship, not just a friendship. Please, if you are going to judge, go learn how to judge first. You younger ones on here think head knowledge means everything when it don't mean jack sh%t without wisdom. Mishapqueen, you don't need his approval because it's worthless. When you get older Reece and mature a little, come talk to me.
GodChoosesLife says2014-07-12T08:18:02.3042097-05:00
Neither.

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