Nonsense- over half the women who get abortions were using contraception. Nearly half are married with other children. And over 80% live in poverty with no insurance to PAY for a pregnancy and birth, which are extremely expensive.
This question is absurd anyway- do you know how SELDOM this scenario, a committed man with a woman who wants an abortion, actually HAPPENS?
If the father wants to be involved in the babies life, and the baby is not a product of rape/incest and if giving birth to the baby wouldn't put the mother's life in danger than yes. Unless it was immaculate frigging conception, that baby is just as much his as it is hers.
But in order to enforce that rule, you also have to rule that a woman can be punished for not acquiescing to the whims of her partner, or attempting to actually *use* her basic right to bodily autonomy. Irregardless of any other circumstances, that is wrong.