Cold-Mind ... No woman, in her mind, wants a confident slacker who she has to keep up ... Or a confident player who can't keep it in his pants long enough to be faithful to her ... Or a confident abuser, alcoholic, etc. Confidence is nice, but it ISN'T the most important thing.
@Cold-Mind I would say that confidence gives you a good chance to be noticed. And yes, there are women who just want a guy that gives them attention and the feeling to be chased. But getting a date and getting a relationship are two different things. Confidence gets you the first one. Not necessarily the second.
It depends on the woman. A lot of women seem (to me) to like big, loud and unintelligent men, honestly, but it would be wrong of me to generalize all women this way. Much like it would be wrong of me to generalize all men as wanting thin, ditsy blonde women, who will make them good food and treat them like kings. My wife loves my compassion and intellect and creativity. I'm a short and skinny guy, who is intelligent but quite emotional at times. My wife is smart, loving and creative as well. She's very stubborn and sassy, which I find attractive. I am grateful that she is a good cook though. I cook too, but I am pretty awful at it. I am aware that I over-shared, but I am also socially awkward, and just don't care. Besides, it's my anniversary, and I love her so deal with it. Haha