Why do so many people here on DDO have NPD symptoms?

Posted by: Haroush

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Immaturity

Is it because they are so immature?
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All of the above

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Lifestyle

Is it because the way they are living?
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They have NPD

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reece says2014-07-12T08:39:00.2912483-05:00
It's because this is a debate website maybe?
Haroush says2014-07-12T08:43:12.7531803-05:00
No... Has nothing to do with it.
reece says2014-07-12T08:47:45.6836483-05:00
Haroush: you might be confusing NPD with other disorders that people have on DDO, like for example i have asperger's thus a take a logical stance on life but i can't read peoples emotions clearly and through that transaction others can get hurt.
NathanDuclos says2014-07-12T09:10:58.3926461-05:00
Sorry for my ignorance. . . What is Npd?
Haroush says2014-07-12T09:12:52.3510945-05:00
Well, I never said people necessarily have NPD, but have symptoms of NPD. Now, maybe in other comments I've made I have called people out for being NPD like, but that's about it.
Haroush says2014-07-12T09:13:40.3366945-05:00
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Haroush says2014-07-12T09:15:14.6595034-05:00
Napoleon Syndrome is similar NPD, but a little different.
Haroush says2014-07-12T09:15:36.6243034-05:00
*similar to
Haroush says2014-07-12T09:28:16.4086265-05:00
By the way, I am not saying I don't have problems either, but I am just seeing more and more people going around as if they are absolutely correct. Now, I may give passionate responses in comment sections sometimes, but I give people the same equal power in a debate. If I didn't I'd be respectful. For example, sometimes when we debate, there comes a time when you realize your opponent isn't going to give up and neither are you. And if the debate has already carried on to a point where both people have expressed their full understanding of a situation, what is the point of continuing the argument? I mean, if you are in an actual debate, it is a different story, but either way, you do your best to be ethical in the sense of respect. Why is there a need to degrade the perception of someone personally? I don't see a point in it.
reece says2014-07-12T09:28:35.7214265-05:00
Haroush : No you specifically said and i quote "Here we have another DDO user with NPD... Guess who?" http://www.debate.org/polls/should-rape-be-legal-if-abortion-is-legal/?vid=1A40EBAD-2E60-4E98-A085-0077C5FABA3D so don't try and run away from you problems...
Haroush says2014-07-12T09:38:56.8614176-05:00
And their their are two sides to a message: A sender and a receiver. The sender sends a message that is intended to be perceived the way the sender wanted it to be perceived, but the truth is there is multiple ways of perceiving a message. For example, I could give you an okay hand signal to you and then give an okay hand signal to someone else, and they would interpret it as a money signal. Or perhaps, I could be a fan of the Texas Longhorns, so I throw up a Texas longhorn hand signal, though someone else may interpret this as devil horns. So, miss-communication is the issue being displayed here. One way of avoiding miss-communication is by asking questions when you are not sure what someone is attempting to say.
discomfiting says2014-07-12T09:39:01.2970265-05:00
Maybe you should be diagnosing people over line.
Haroush says2014-07-12T09:46:55.6062594-05:00
Well, I did take psychology courses, but no I am not a certified psychologist so I couldn't do that. Besides, in order for a psychologist to make a diagnoses on someone, they have to have multiple encounters with the individual in a face-to-face discussion in order to figure out what the person is dealing with. Therefore, there is only so much you can tell about someone online, but when you have a face-to-face discussion with someone you can read their body language, plus their verbal messages. Then observe where there is contradictions so on and so forth.
reece says2014-07-12T09:50:23.4557496-05:00
Haroush: I dabble in psycholinguistics my self :P
Haroush says2014-07-12T09:53:28.3864024-05:00
Also, at Reece, you are right I said those words, (this is in regards to you quoting me) but I didn't intend for the message to come out like that. Sometimes, frustration can make you say things that are "default" in your brain.
reece says2014-07-12T09:55:44.6129496-05:00
Haroush: What you say is what you are...
reece says2014-07-12T09:58:28.0237998-05:00
Defined as who you are i should say
Haroush says2014-07-12T09:58:54.1383672-05:00
Yes, what we say is technically what we are, but it also can be a reflection of what is around them.
Haroush says2014-07-12T10:03:07.1188788-05:00
For example, what do you do when you get overloaded with multiple negative emotions directed at you or indirectly surrounding you? You use the mirror technique, right?
reece says2014-07-12T10:06:27.1164727-05:00
The environment is irrelevant in how you are defined by what you say..
Haroush says2014-07-12T10:27:42.1165717-05:00
I disagree with you, but I respect your opinion. I'll leave it there.
reece says2014-07-12T10:33:25.3793372-05:00
You know you can't grow as a person if you're closed minded. You should admit when you're wrong and learn from experience
Formerland1 says2014-07-12T13:10:50.2988268-05:00
We don't have NPD we are just very very arrogant
Formerland1 says2014-07-12T13:11:34.2752268-05:00
I think I have alot of different disorders but they never caused me much trouble so I never saw a phsycologist .
Haroush says2014-07-12T13:18:47.8616268-05:00
If criticism is of the past, then how do you go into the future?
reece says2014-07-12T19:14:34.9069657-05:00
Learn from mistakes...
Haroush says2014-07-12T21:51:25.6491887-05:00
No, it's the one giving the criticism who is living in the past..
Haroush says2014-07-12T21:52:23.4939887-05:00
Reece your hard head isn't going to get you far in life..
reece says2014-07-12T22:02:13.5409967-05:00
Can you elaborate ?
reece says2014-07-12T22:19:29.7241967-05:00
Not*
reece says2014-07-12T22:20:06.6626000-05:00
Why are you on DDO if you're no open to ideas? I'm more than willing to admit i'm wrong in a debate or in anything else if there's reliable evidence/claims proofing my opposition is right.
Haroush says2014-07-13T00:16:30.0164552-05:00
(sighs, then yawns)
reece says2014-07-13T00:18:24.9498642-05:00
I rest my case

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